I read about that documentary before, Thobert, but did not watch it yet. I have seen others. You're right that "gay therapy" doesn't work. It often leads to suicide. And not only is it harmful to the person who is trying not to be gay, it can also hurt a lot of other people, too. There are frequent stories in the news about conservative fundamentalist types involved in sexual scandals. Sometimes, they will marry women and have children so that they can maintain their "image" as a family man. They do this so that they can be accepted by conservative society, hold their jobs, make good money and live well. But at the same time, they will often have secret affairs with other closeted gays on the side, and sometimes these secrets are exposed on the news. I'm sure you've heard of the conservative politicians caught having sex with other men in airport bathrooms, etc. These stories actually happen with alarming frequency. This is devastating to their wives, their families and everyone they lied to. It would be a better world, I think, if they could just be openly gay and not deceive so many people!
Here is an article about just twenty-five of them, although if you google you can find hundreds. And often it is the most outspoken, virulently homophobic conservatives who ultimately turn out to be closet gays!
Gay Political Scandals: 25 Politicians Who Have Faced Claims About Their Sexuality
Ted Haggard also comes to mind. He was the raging, frothing-at-the-mouth homophobe and pastor of "New Life Church."
Disgraced pastor Haggard admits second relationship with man - CNN.com
I have no doubt that many people live double lives in Russia. In fact, Anton Krasovsky, a well-known television presenter, just lost his job after he came out on TV:
Антон Красовский:
Brave man, Krasovsky. He was punished severely by his employers and now he lives in fear for his life. But despite his fear, he came out anyway. I am in awe of his courage, really.
Russian TV Presenter Comes Out on Air, Gets Fired | Advocate.com
In this column, he explains why he came out in his own words, and he had the guts to say everything. Reading his story brought me to tears. So much courage!
I came out because gay people in Russia are suffering – it's time for courage | Anton Krasovsky | Comment is free | theguardian.com