I actually meant "your loss"...
Did I call it a competition? Maybe you see it as one, I see it as a collective effort for self-enrichment. In school, we don't only get our information from our teacher, but from our classmates as well. No arrogance, offenses, competition or ego-games involved...or at least, not from side. I'm really quite surprised you see it differently.
But good thing you let me know...