Quote Originally Posted by gRomoZeka
Quote Originally Posted by charlestonian
It's better to know from the beginning before it goes too far, esp. in chats.
Are you sure people will answer? I've seen quite a few English-speakers, who were very touchy about gender questions (who knows why). Can the asked user see it as a sexism?
Nope. Most people are pretty open about it. They don't want to be misled either.