Thread: I have a question :(

"I have a new stereotype in my mind for Turkish men..."

Basurero , you dont think so. maybe some of turkish men like me.

%80 of turkish men think about money.
but I dont know why I think about love.
maybe you laugh at me.you think about it funny.
Right! I love someone that she is not from my country.

For a typical Russian girl love means much more than money, but only if she loves. If she's just playing a game you're going to loose.

"For a typical Russian girl love means much more than money, but only if she loves. If she's just playing a game you're going to loose."

thanks Ataklena!!

you relax to my heart.

I have expected like this info since I asked this question.

There could be other reasons for this as well.

One, she wants to see if you are able to provide, you have to imagine that there are men out there just looking for a wife, and not for love.
So she may be testing you to see if you can provide for her and a family if thats the next step. So that could be a good thing.


Two, it could be a con/scam, in which she is just trying to get you to send money, then never talk to you again. If she is asking you to purchase the ticket and send it to her, then this could be considered a good sign.


I think there are women all over the world that only care for money, not just Russian women. Of course there is just opposite, they want love first, but a man that can provide as well. And yes this includes Russian women.

Thats my 2 cents.

Тоби , I agree with you.

I like the first reason.Because it includes my feelings.

I never think about second reason even.its an ugly behaviour.

the worst situation is Lack of communication!
I cant explain her nothing.Of course she couldnt too.
she doesnt know english.and I dont know russian.
Just "I love you" saying each other on the phone.
and only I call her.she never call me.sometimes mail me.
but she is very good when we talking to phone.
I cant still solve this situation

thanks for you are interested in my quesiton.

achilles,

I really don't think you'll get along with her if you cannot understand each other, I mean, if you don't have a mutual language. But this is not the worst.

The worst is, if you keep communicating only via mail/phone, it will get you to nothing. It's obvious. Love cannot endure on just text and voice. You must feel each other, see each other, enjoy each other. So you must meet ASAP.

And someone I don't remember who was totally right to say: if she's asking for a ticket -- it's ok, buy her a ticket and meet her happy, or at least, find money and buy a ticket, if she is asking you to send her money to buy a ticket -- it's 100% scam. Flush her down the toilet and never think about her again. Most likely she is not even a girl (the original initiator).