achilles,

I really don't think you'll get along with her if you cannot understand each other, I mean, if you don't have a mutual language. But this is not the worst.

The worst is, if you keep communicating only via mail/phone, it will get you to nothing. It's obvious. Love cannot endure on just text and voice. You must feel each other, see each other, enjoy each other. So you must meet ASAP.

And someone I don't remember who was totally right to say: if she's asking for a ticket -- it's ok, buy her a ticket and meet her happy, or at least, find money and buy a ticket, if she is asking you to send her money to buy a ticket -- it's 100% scam. Flush her down the toilet and never think about her again. Most likely she is not even a girl (the original initiator).