it is intended for a young woman, informal and humorous - does not have to be word for word:
"A very very Happy Birthday to the 'Солнышко' girl with the most fabulous smile and personality"
"Have you ever been to a live music concert? if so which band or singer? you enjoyed it?"
"What makes you laugh spontaneously? (apart my Russian grammatical errors)"
"Do you like receiving actual handwritten mail or postcards from another country?"
"What's on the menu tonight?"
"Regarding your SETI answer: imagine if it was a postcard from the planet "55Cancri" addressed to you with a beautiful message of friendship..."
"Настя, so you never want to learn to drive? I'm just curious why - "
many thanks in advance!