I think you should just follow the plot starting with season1 (xxxHolic) and then season2 (xxxHolic:Kei).Waterlaz, The xxxHolic, I looked on Wiki for that and it seems like something the girls would like. they are into all that wizards and fantasy stuff.
Do you have a suggestion as to where to start or which ones are better than others?
There are 2 things I would like to point here though:
1) I don't know if the English dub is good or not. I've watched it subtitled.
2) At least wikipedia states that this is seinen. Which means that this one is a male oriented anime.
I would say that it's pretty neitral. Well. I've never understood them with their classifications.
There's the other one I didn't mention:Of the other ones you listed, are any of them something you think my girls might like?
The Girl Who Leapt Through Time
And I think this would be just right. I think you should start with this one.
As for the others you could and probably should also try Azumanga Daioh.