Replying is not the same thing as debating. I did not answer any of Bob's "questions" because they are not really questions. They are like digs made at me and if I reply or stand up for what I believe, then I will become a convenient target for everyone who hates gay people. I don't like having conversations when they turn into shouting matches, when people start insulting each other and calling each other names. I do not like getting into arguments where we try to make each other look like idiots, and Bob's comment was intended to trigger me. I am not going to be triggered, or led into a trap where I can become convenient fodder for everyone's anti-gay rage. I just don't have the time for it, and anyway, I am not "The Homophobe Whisperer."