gRomoZeka, I don't think "обаять" is an improper word and it doesn't certainly imply sexual affection like your synonyms.
PS maybe you like "охмурить"
Oh, that's brilliant. =)) I saw it in a movie, two guys were talking about a chick and one of them said, "Не нужно тебе её обаёвыв...обаявыв..... тьфу, охмурять!" =)))