One of my good friends is Russian, and in fantastic shape, but there's an old guy at the restaurant where she's a hostess who always asks her if she's lost weight, and she doesn't even know who he is. It drives her nuts.
So me, being the good friend that I am, like to throw in a russian phrase when speaking to her around other people to get a reaction out of her. Sometimes it's something blatantly sexual, last time I asked her "Aren't you Ukranian?" stuff like that.
So I'm wondering what is the proper way to say "have you lost weight?" and if there's a way to suggest surprise or shock without explicitly saying so, that'd be great too.
Thanks