I have heard that often .... American smiles are fake.
My response .... I am not like every other American.
Really ... I try very hard to take people for who they are. An individual person I have come in contact with. There are no preconceived notions or ideas. To me they are a clean slate. I do not judge someone based on culture, religion, sex, color or socioeconomic status. I choose to smile. I choose to be friendly.
However, because I smile and want to present myself in a friendly manner, does not mean I am not wary OR that I am not genuine in my smile.
I wear my emotions quite openly. One can always tell if I am sad, happy, joyful, angry and a whole host of reasons I may wear an expression.
But to smile ... to a person I do not know ... maybe, just maybe with that one small act of kindness ... maybe I have touched them in a way that is good. Maybe they can pass it on to another.
If I frown all the time ... wrinkles, I do not want them. I want joy. passion. even in the bad times.
meh .... to each their own I guess. But a smile makes me feel good.



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