Just to clarify:

As a medical diagnosis, pedophilia, or paedophilia, is defined as a psychiatric disorder in persons who are 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children (generally those under the age of 14, though onset of puberty varies). The prepubescent child must be at least five years younger than the adolescent before the attraction can be diagnosed as pedophilia.[1][2][3][4][5]
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Pedophilia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

By "pedophile" I am referring to guys over 18 who prefer girls under 14. So, if anixx only prefers girls over 14, he is not a pedophile technically. But he still has stated he prefers girls between 14 and 18 - and I find that disgusting personally.

I am not disgusted by an 18-year-old guy who loves his sweetheart from school, who happens to be 15. That is a different situation. They are both teenagers.

I am talking about a man, who is already out of school, who specifically looks for little girls under 18. Anixx's comment about underage girls being a "blank sheet of paper" tells me that he wants a girl whose mind has not developed. It is a very shallow view, from someone who does not have the maturity to relate to a woman who knows her own mind and knows what she wants in love.

As for me, my husband is 8 years younger! So I am certainly not opposed to dating people who are younger or older, as long as both people in the relationship are adults. He was already 27 when we met. By contrast, if I had been 20, he would have only been 13 - and that would have been too young. So a lot depends on how old the person is when they meet someone.