I never had kids. At first, it was because of my career and lack of finances. Then it was because of my husband's medical condition. I always figured I could adopt some day, and perhaps I still could, but I am getting too old to have a child of my own.

Sometimes I feel profound regret for that, especially when I see the amazing bond some of my girlfriends have with their daughters. And I wonder, who will be there to take care of me when I'm old?

You are young and right now kids might seem like a burden, but when you are older you may regret never having children. I do.

On the other hand, I'm not entirely unhappy being childless, either. I did a lot of things in my life that other women only dream of, because the responsibilities of children tied them down. They were jealous of me then, and sometimes now, I am jealous of them.

It's a trade-off. Not all women have to be mothers, and not all women make good mothers, either. Just be sure that whatever decision you make is right for you!