Quote Originally Posted by grafrich View Post
и тот и тот both (for 2 people, colloquial)
и тот и тот — for 2 men
и та и та — for 2 women

и тот и та / и та и тот for a man and a woman are possible but rare and clumsy. It’s better to use оба in this case.

Quote Originally Posted by grafrich View Post
и то и другое same as all above?
The same number-gender distinction works here:
и те и другие both (for 2 groups of things/people, colloquial)
и то и другое both (for 2 things, colloquial)
и тот и другой both (for 2 men, colloquial)
и та и другая both (for 2 women, colloquial)


Quote Originally Posted by grafrich View Post
оба both (for 2 things/people, same as и тот и тот but formal/written, not colloquial)
оба — for 2 men or for a men and a woman
обе — for two women
оба / обе is not limited to formal speech. It is used in colloquial speech too.