The actions of the husband aside, if she really IS religious in the Jewish Orthodox faith, then it would seem that she needs to accept that it appears to be Gods will that she tries to fix the marriage to the man she's already married to.

Doesn't the Catholic church have very similar views on this and it is very hard to recieve religious approval to remarry?

And who is the rally for, I mean whos views are they trying to change? God's?!
As far as the State is concerned she can no doubt get a divorce regardless of what her husband thinks.

She can't expect the Jewish Orthodox faith to change Jewish law, which is straight from the bible, just because it doesn't happen to suit her personal situation and preferences! What can the rabbis do? It's not like they can petition God, get a thousand signatures and have the law changed.

And like Gromozeka says, if she has lost faith in orthodox Judaism, then there is no problem, she can just walk away and practice less strict judaism or some other religion, or be an atheist. There is such a thing as taking the consequences of your actions, and it seems like she is not willing to do that. If the situation was reversed and she needed the community's financial support, or something else that they could offer, then she probably would not complain! Instead she is annoyed because their view on divorce does not work in her favour.

I don't know anything about the divorce laws in Israel but I would be surprised if they are very strict. I have been there a few times and in my opinion it is like any secular country, most people are not religious. There is just a minority of maybe 5-10 % who are orthodox Jews, and the country operates by Jewish calendar rather than Christian. But it is a secular country and most people are very laid back. I am sure plenty of them get divorced and expect to be able to remarry.