I had thought about posting this one last week and just didn't get around to it. Now I see that there has been more follow-up to the story over the weekend, with "according to the Los Angeles Times. During the visit, a social worker reviewed some parenting tips while the officers allegedly congratulated him for a lesson well taught." So for those of you who were not one of the 24 MILLION to have watched this video:
It is of a North Carolina dad who decided hand out a very public punishment to his rebellious and disrespectful 15 year-old daughter.
Jordan posted on his Facebook wall that he'd do the whole thing over again, though with a few minor tweaks: He'd ditch the cigarette, retract calling his daughter and "ass," change hats and shine his boots. Otherwise, he stands by his actions.
NBC's "Today" polled readers on the incident and reported that 74 percent agreed with Jordan's actions.
I do admire the way he is handling the press and not going on all the talk shows:
While we appreciate the interest you're all putting forth to get in touch with us regarding the video, we're not going to go on your talk show, not going to call in to your radio show, and not going to be in your TV mini-series.
Some of you think I made an acceptable parenting decision and others think I didn't. However, I can't think of any way myself or my daughter can ...respond to a media outlet that won't be twisted out of context. The Dallas news TV news already showed that in their brief 5 minute interview with the psychologist.
Additionally, there's absolutely NO way I'm going to send my child the message that it's OK to gain from something like this. It would send her a message that it's OK to profit at the expense of someone else's embarrassment or misfortune and that's now how I was raised, nor how she has been raised.
So I say thank you from all of us. If we have anything to say, we'll say it here on Facebook, and we'll say it publicly, but we won't say it to a microphone or a camera. There are too many other REAL issues out there that could use this attention you're giving us. My daughter isn't hurt, emotionally scarred, or otherwise damaged, but that kind of publicity has never seemed to be to have a positive effect on any child or family.
If you're a news outlet that wants to ask us a question, feel free to so via email. I'm sure by now my email address is easy enough to find. It might take me awhile to get to a response because I'd have to sort through the "Die you bastard" emails to find it, but we will respond if its something that we feel merits it. Otherwise, sorry... no interviews, no talk shows, no call-ins.
If we respond to anything, it will be on here, and it will be in a way that our words can't be misconstrued or edited for appeal to specific audience or shock value.Now, I'm going to try to get to work for the day.
Best of luck to all of you out there... and PLEASE give my phone a break." Anyway, there have been LOTS of going back an forth on this one as to if the dad did the right thing or not. Some people believe he did the right thing but that his daughter probably hates him even more. It seems that most of the people who think he is wrong are other teens.