Thread: Gay foreigners learning Russian

Originally Posted by Antonio1986

Of course!
Sexual orientation does not bother anyone.
Enjoy your time in Russia

Thank you Antonio. I must say I was very worried after reading some newspaper articles about even shops diplaying on their front doors 'faggots not allowed' signs, like this apparently:
http://varlamov.me/2017/samiy_dorogoi_hleb/00s.jpg

Not sure how true this is... but this makes me fear that the general attitude toward gays is not exactly relaxed, and I hope I'm wrong...

Originally Posted by interprete

Thank you Antonio. I must say I was very worried after reading some newspaper articles about even shops diplaying on their front doors 'faggots not allowed' signs, like this apparently:
http://varlamov.me/2017/samiy_dorogoi_hleb/00s.jpg

Not sure how true this is... but this makes me fear that the general attitude toward gays is not exactly relaxed, and I hope I'm wrong...

It is perhaps less liberal than Netherlands, but believe me in Moscow and Saint-Petersburg there is not difference from any other European capital.
Just relax and enjoy your vacations!

Originally Posted by interprete

Not sure how true this is...

This picture is true, however this businessman 'Herman Sterlingov' (Герман Стерлингов) is known for his... extravagant, close to scandalous actions. This one particular his shop sells bread for 1000 euro per bun because Herman 'bake it himself'.
If you will not tell random bullies on the street that you a gay, everything will be ok. Province is really less tolerable and 'rednecks' can throw angry look at kissing men.

Originally Posted by Alex80

This picture is true, however this businessman 'Herman Sterlingov' (Герман Стерлингов) is known for his... extravagant, close to scandalous actions. This one particular his shop sells bread for 1000 euro per bun because Herman 'bake it himself'.
If you will not tell random bullies on the street that you a gay, everything will be ok. Province is really less tolerable and 'rednecks' can throw angry look at kissing men.

Thank you Alex80. Well I have no intention to kiss or hold anyone's hand, but on the other hand I was afraid of having to tell lies about my personal life whenever I would meet new Russian friends, but since this doesn't seem to be the case, I'm reassured

Originally Posted by interprete

diplaying on their front doors 'faggots not allowed' signs, like this apparently:
http://varlamov.me/2017/samiy_dorogoi_hleb/00s.jpg

Not sure how true this is... but this makes me fear that the general attitude toward gays is not exactly relaxed, and I hope I'm wrong...

The sign is probably some kind of a "black humor".

But - generally - it`s not ok to be gay in Russia. No one will know for sure unless you tell, but my advice would be to avoid provocative cloth, haircuts, conduct... Don`t smile too much to strangers (I`m not kidding). On the other hand, I see lots of lesbian girls in St Petersburg, sometimes even male couples - mostly in the city center. So the truth would be to smother the personal life questions like..

but then they would wonder how come a guy in his 30's is still single.

...
1. Busy man (high achiever with not much free time). 2. Broke up recently, still suffer, no impetus to find a new one...

Stay safe.

Originally Posted by Serge_spb

Don`t smile too much to strangers (I`m not kidding).

That's going to be difficult for me, after spending several years in a country where everybody smiles all the time!

But thanks a lot for the ideas, I think the scenario about a recent breakup is a good one. I hope I won't make any inconsistent mistake in my story and get busted

Originally Posted by interprete

I hope I won't make any inconsistent mistake in my story and get busted

You do not have to explain anything except in police station. No smile, no responsibility for strangers. Don't worry and stay cool.

Originally Posted by Alex80

You do not have to explain anything except in police station. No smile, no responsibility for strangers. Don't worry and stay cool.

I think they don't have to explain anything even in a police station (some formal questions, that's all). Besides police stations don't speak English)

Originally Posted by interprete

I must say I was very worried after reading some newspaper articles about even shops diplaying on their front doors 'faggots not allowed' signs, like this apparently:

I'd say the whole homophobia story is blow out of proportion (for political reasons probably). Russians are quite tolerant to gays. There're certain exceptions (orthodox Christians for example) but in general it's fine. Especially among younger generation.