hi friends
I dont know.This is the right topic for this question.
please tell me...
Which one is the most important thing for a classical russian girl?
Money ? or Real love ?
thanks...
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hi friends
I dont know.This is the right topic for this question.
please tell me...
Which one is the most important thing for a classical russian girl?
Money ? or Real love ?
thanks...
Ok... Well I am Russian, but I live in the United States... Which sucks if you would like to know. But my parents were Russian, and my mother always have taught me that if I love someone for the money than I am wrong... And down right dirty. But if I love someone for what they are like inside than, its good.
I hate girls in America, I am still in highschool. So they constantly talk about who they like because they hear how much money they are willing to spend on you. Which is stupid!
Liz James
I hope I could help a little bit... :oops:
I think your mother tell truth.if you love someone for the money,you are wrong.
"I hate girls in America, I am still in highschool. So they constantly talk about who they like because they hear how much money they are willing to spend on you. Which is stupid! "
american girls ? or russian girls? which one is stupid.
you could help a little bit. but I dont still understand. sorry..
you meaned , Russian girls like money more than love?
thanks..
There is no correct answer to that question. Everything depends on the girl, of course.
Though kids in Russia are mostly were brought up to think that money is not so important as than love, friendship etc., there are always girls who dream to be rich and do nothing (so they are looking for the rich boyfriend/husband).
Of course ,Everything depends on the girl.
but if russian girl really love someone , in this case money important?
even if the boy doesnt have much money, so she will be together with him?
Just ask her. :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by achilles
Just ask her. thats good.
but I just wonder.maybe I cant ask her.how do you know :oops:
I want to know.
Not money.
Probably real love, as long as she doesn't feature here:
http://www.russianbrides.ru
In terms of money and love they are all being most demanding.Quote:
Originally Posted by achilles
It's best for the girl to have both things at the same time :)
Each girl wants a man to take care of every and each of her problems, including both material and non-material ones. The more problems you solve the more she likes (or loves) you.
achilles It is very difficult question. Your life experience should say to you where love and where lie. :) People are different.
all of you are right.
I m so sorry.because I steal your time.thanks to everyone.
my mind has been complicated , since I met her.
I have tried to many way to winnig her heart.
but we cant understand each other exactly.
example , she tell me "love you" when we talk to phone.
but I think , if I dont call her , she never call me.
she mail me , then she says I want to go turkey for a new year.
but she want to money for a plain ticket from me.
so I dont have enough.
so I asked all of you this question. money? or love?
thanks again for your help....
:cry:
if that stuff bothers you then you should just talk to her about it! dont bottle stuff up (how'd you say that in russian?). people in moscow tend to be more obsessed by money, but not all
I will talk to her or mail.I hope she understand what I say.
I wish She doesnt care about money.
thanks Lt. Columbo
Не скрывай/прячь/подавляй/сдерживай (or не держи в себе) чувства/эмоции.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lt. Columbo
Money! They don't care about love. Many russian girls marry monkeys with money. :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by achilles
charlestonian!!!!!!!
you try to break my heart ????
maybe everything is not money. :cry:
Russian men are guilty in it. We have got accustomed women that the man pays for all :)Quote:
Originally Posted by achilles
I have a new stereotype in my mind for Turkish men...
basurero .... turkish men? :?
"I have a new stereotype in my mind for Turkish men..."
Basurero , you dont think so. maybe some of turkish men like me.
%80 of turkish men think about money.
but I dont know why I think about love.
maybe you laugh at me.you think about it funny.
Right! I love someone that she is not from my country.
For a typical Russian girl love means much more than money, but only if she loves. If she's just playing a game you're going to loose.
"For a typical Russian girl love means much more than money, but only if she loves. If she's just playing a game you're going to loose."
thanks Ataklena!! :oops:
you relax to my heart.
I have expected like this info since I asked this question.
There could be other reasons for this as well.
One, she wants to see if you are able to provide, you have to imagine that there are men out there just looking for a wife, and not for love.
So she may be testing you to see if you can provide for her and a family if thats the next step. So that could be a good thing.
Two, it could be a con/scam, in which she is just trying to get you to send money, then never talk to you again. If she is asking you to purchase the ticket and send it to her, then this could be considered a good sign.
I think there are women all over the world that only care for money, not just Russian women. Of course there is just opposite, they want love first, but a man that can provide as well. And yes this includes Russian women.
Thats my 2 cents.
Тоби , I agree with you.
I like the first reason.Because it includes my feelings.
I never think about second reason even.its an ugly behaviour.
the worst situation is Lack of communication!
I cant explain her nothing.Of course she couldnt too.
she doesnt know english.and I dont know russian.
Just "I love you" saying each other on the phone.
and only I call her.she never call me.sometimes mail me.
but she is very good when we talking to phone.
I cant still solve this situation :(
thanks for you are interested in my quesiton. :oops:
achilles,
I really don't think you'll get along with her if you cannot understand each other, I mean, if you don't have a mutual language. But this is not the worst.
The worst is, if you keep communicating only via mail/phone, it will get you to nothing. It's obvious. Love cannot endure on just text and voice. You must feel each other, see each other, enjoy each other. So you must meet ASAP.
And someone I don't remember who was totally right to say: if she's asking for a ticket -- it's ok, buy her a ticket and meet her happy, or at least, find money and buy a ticket, if she is asking you to send her money to buy a ticket -- it's 100% scam. Flush her down the toilet and never think about her again. Most likely she is not even a girl (the original initiator).