well...the only good thing to do ..is : as they are both new ..so no one has a special place ..ignore them both ... dont go ..i think thats the only god thing to do ... just if they are both new ... :|
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well...the only good thing to do ..is : as they are both new ..so no one has a special place ..ignore them both ... dont go ..i think thats the only god thing to do ... just if they are both new ... :|
If you haven't had any kind of physical experience with the second one, I'd say meet the first, and then figure out which one you click with better. You're not in a relationship yet, so it's ok to meet someone else.Quote:
Originally Posted by cdnexpat
However, if you have, then I wouldn't meet the other girl. Maybe it's just a personal thing, but that's how I am.
-Fantom
hello there ppl. havin read this multi paged forum theme i want to tell u my story. it happens usually such way when u dont wait any knocking into ur world. i ve found him by myself. just one day i wanted to kill time. and picked up a nice icq name. and then he answered and HE firstly declared after being acquainted for 2-3 weeks. i treat carefully such relationships starting. it's been really strange to find love there for me for the first time. i ve never experienced love as i do now before. i cant even believe now that all this happened in real to me. and to him. to us i mean being concrete. internet complements some magic things there, mystery, fairy tale features even. it's so exiting and amazing every time there being. with him. after 1 month acquaintance he arrived to me. we realised that re in love in each other. and it s strong, established, clear and pure feeling. more to say all of this gave us both a huge power to live. i ve found a good work while studyin at uni. and he also s workin and studyin. so we re earning money for to meet once more. we re much apart now. it's hard. but we love. so i must say there can be love in there. and surely meetings can improve much this stuff. M.
how old are you ? ...after how long did u meet ... .?? ..do u live in the same country ?! :|
thats really nice that u have met ! :)
i m 20 and he s 23. he came to moscow after 1 month acquaintance that we realised we re in love. no we dont live in the same country. we re far apart and believe me it's hard to live such. we live both in capitals. me in moscow and him in london. i dont know when we meet again. but the fact is that we know WE RE. and this FIRE still remains. so there s none problem. tell me i dont quite understand. u ve met the girl in here and never met her in real? what s the situation now between u and her?
I think if it's your mission to find love on the internet, you're more vulnerable to scams and liars and losers, because you'll be looking for something and seeing what you want to see. And the places online where people go to find companions are places that tend to attract the people pretending to be someone else.
I don't know much about the singles' scene on the internet, but much of it seems to be based on looks and statistics, like picking someone out of a catalogue and then seeing if you get along.
I have lived for 12 years with someone I met online (back then it was dialup to local BBS and everything was text-based.) There was a discussion board about politics and stuff, and I got to know people via the discussions, and just hit it off with someone. I had no intention of finding a boyfriend, it was just we ran into each other and sort of clicked. Luckily we didn't find each other physically repulsive when we met in person.
I know another couple who met on a quit-smoking site. I think you could meet a special person a lot of places you weren't looking, on a board like this, for example, or anywhere a group of people have a common interest other than finding a partner. Might be you end up being more compatible than anyone you find in the meat market.
I suppose chatrooms and cybersex might be more fun, but you never really know who you're dealing with, do you?
Bex dear. firstly i must say i had no intention to find there someone. love 4 ex. it was may fate. i wanted to kill time and just picked him and offered to chat and then all things went on. more to say, i ve always tendered to such a way of finding a partner too strange and unbelievable. even now i do think when ppl re knockin' at my icq door. we really dont know who they re in fact. and i dont know completely who my bf s. i know he studies and work hard, that he has a family(i mean dad, mom, etc) and he doesnt live with them... etc. but these re visual, usual and normal facts. i can say i know his soul, we ve touched each other totally like never before. but what hides behind all of this? i ve seen his life only here in moscow. i should watch his life in london too. and it's much important. truly to say i believe him. i follow my heart, i ve a great intuition. i do claim that all of this exists. simply cause i love him. and i know he loves me. and when it's fire, strong, constant and mutual feeling all the problems re sold. i mean a huge distance, eventually misunderstandings, that's why we quarrel much. all of this has as well as negatives but positives too. it makes our relationships more unusual, more exciting, more to be wanted. it's hard but i know together only we can reach the aim.
not so good .....i feel she's gone ....like we have reached the end .. :cry: ...Quote:
Originally Posted by Nikita_more_2_say
come one. tell me exactly what happened. we can talk and define some reasons. do u ve icq?
Im going to meet my internet 'girlfriend' in 12 hours! OMFG 7 months to build up to this..... Im pretty damn excited.
great luck 2 u then.
:D Have fun!Quote:
Originally Posted by Dogboy182
I like love stories, I wish you and him all the best with your fiery relationship :D Let me know how it goes OK?Quote:
Originally Posted by Nikita_more_2_say
sure Bex. u also great luck. do u ve icq or msn? truly i ve much to share with. and i need ur experience. can we talk then?
Why did Biancca take down her avatar, which she said was she?
Maybe she is correct and men have one thing in mind (sex) and woman one thing in mind (sex).
And maybe she dropped her avatar because of those two truisms.
Like Bex said, the Internet is no place to find love - there are strange people, or worse, out here on the Web.
Sorry B.
She said men had one thing in mind (sex) and women had one thing in mind (love).
Interesting avatar you have there, Stephen old boy! Have I seen it somewhere before? :wink:
What do you mean maybe Biancca is right? She is darn right!
I think about food sometimes also... :lol:
-Fantom
oh fantom come on. and what do u think about more?...... 8)
Nope, nope. I disagree. I think many men, after 30, begin to be more concerned with "long-term"...love, friendship, companionship.Quote:
Originally Posted by kalinka_vinnie
Generalizations ("all men are like this"..."all women are like this") just don't work as we mature.
Darn...I'm showing my age now.
:wink:
I said "Sometimes" with the food! That leaves a whole lot of open thinking time for other topics.. :))Quote:
Originally Posted by Nikita_more_2_say
Just kidding, to be perfectly honest, I am at that point of my life where I'm looking for love and not sex... God, I hate to say it, but I would like to settle down... And I'm only 26...
-Fantom
Think about this......I'm 18 and I have already come at the point where love is much more important then sex. I really love sex (hehe funny in this context) but there is nothing better then tenderness and sharing your deepest thoughts with someone.Quote:
Originally Posted by fantom605
Well good for you Mea! I am glad some ppl are reasonable at that young age!
I agree that when men mature they become less obsessed with sex and more intersted in long term relationship, but it doesn't make them that more faithful! I know too many people who cheat on their "loved ones", and this is because of sex.
Fanrom65 - you are not that young :) People used to settle down when they were 18!!!
The more I mature, the more I tend to generalize...Quote:
Originally Posted by Dobry
hey guys !
who wants love doesnt want sex ,thats it ...love is really ..something special ..i meant it ...like to someone like me ,im a guy ,girls and everyone think that guys want sex and girls want love ,thats not the truth .... i dont want sex ,i want love ...nikita knows ..
Well its true. Love from the internet can happen. I am the living proof!
By the way im back from australia as of today.
so what happened ?!
Welcome back the living proof!
I guess it went pretty darn good if he's saying that he is living proof that love can exist from the Internet! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by eMAD
So, Dogboy, when's the wedding?
-Fantom
What happend? oh oh oh! I can't give you all the details but it went great. Coulnd't have expected better.
The wedding is tomorrow in a secret location in kazakhstan.
eMad the life is one...Just go for your dream and met that girl and than... The God will show you the right way ...Maybe you will get frendship maybe love...How knows?
I wish you that your dreams come true
:)
waw !...happy mariage Dogboy ....
...well about me..i have nothing to say ... :?
Even now?
???? what even now? :!: :?:
I think he means that it has been a long time since you mentioned anything about your relationship, so has anything happened?
-Fantom
another hilarious thread!
I could not read it entirely yet, but I think I found some entertainment for when I have free time.
I answered Wierd. And I know what I'm talking about.
eMAD, do not take things too seriously. Seriousness is fear and leads to psychotic drama. Seriouness is non-acceptance of your crazyness and in your case candidness.
Cheers
"I have nothing to say" - "Even now?!"
That is some good writing. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Mordan
That's nothing. I once read thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Biancca
Америка - это иллюзия, вызванная недостатком алкоголя.
No illusion or lack of alcohol here!
Ok, maybe a little illusion... :lol:
-Fantom