Using Вы and ты at the correct times.

So far, there have been only two instances when I had to use Вы, once when I was at the airport and I met a Russian woman and the other is when I talk to my teacher. 95% of the time I am talking to my friends so I am using ты, but then when I talk to my teacher, I know I need to use Вы, but I always end up using ты (and ты forms of verbs) by accident.

I know that I am supposed to use Вы with elders and the like, but in an attempt to not talk slowly ты usually spills out unless I concentrate on using only Вы, but then my fluency is much worse. I am going to St. Petersburg in 4 weeks with some members of my class for an exchange program and I would like to be able to show respect where it is due, so how can I practice using them correctly? (Ты with friends and Вы with elders)

I think it will be useful to read articles like this to realise how to use Вы and ты. To train fluency you can repeat some samples ( вы идёте ты идёшь, вы слышали ты слышал etc. ) taking verbs from a dictionary.

When using the singular Вы past tense verbs are still singular right?
Ex:
Куда Вы шёл? (Where did you (singular) go?)
vs.
Куда вы шли (Where did you (plural) go?)

I always assumed singular stayed singular, but with Вы I just want to make sure.

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Originally Posted by Автобус

When using the singular Вы past tense verbs are still singular right?
Ex:
Куда Вы шёл? (Where did you (singular) go?)
vs.
Куда вы шли (Where did you (plural) go?)

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No. Verbs are plural.

Куда вы шли?

Verbs are plural both in the present and in the past tense. If it's "Что Вы думаете?" (plural), why should be "Что Вы думал?" (singular) ?

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Originally Posted by Автобус

When using the singular Вы past tense verbs are still singular right?
Ex:
Куда Вы шёл? (Where did you (singular) go?)
vs.
Куда вы шли (Where did you (plural) go?)
I always assumed singular stayed singular, but with Вы I just want to make sure.

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No, "Вы" requires plural.
"Что Вы сказали? Повторите, пожалуйста" (to a teacher, for example).

OK, so Вы always requires plural, even when talking to/about one person.

Thanks! :good:

ТЫ И ВЫ

Пустое Вы сердечным ты
Она, обмолвясь, заменила
И все счастливые мечты
В душе влюблённой возбудила.
Пред ней задумчиво стою,
Свести очей с неё нет силы:
И говорю ей: как вы милы!
И мыслю: как тебя люблю!

Александр Сергеевич Пушкин. 1828

It is a classiclal example of the using Вы/ты.

Существовало даже "они" когда-то

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Originally Posted by Автобус

So far, there have been only two instances when I had to use Вы, once when I was at the airport and I met a Russian woman and the other is when I talk to my teacher. 95% of the time I am talking to my friends so I am using ты, but then when I talk to my teacher, I know I need to use Вы, but I always end up using ты (and ты forms of verbs) by accident.

I know that I am supposed to use Вы with elders and the like, but in an attempt to not talk slowly ты usually spills out unless I concentrate on using only Вы, but then my fluency is much worse. I am going to St. Petersburg in 4 weeks with some members of my class for an exchange program and I would like to be able to show respect where it is due, so how can I practice using them correctly? (Ты with friends and Вы with elders)

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Using Вы is a matter of showing good manners, the person doesn't have to be an elder, he could be any person of practically any age or social status (even a child sometimes). Of course, using Вы would sound strange with close friends, but otherwise you can't go wrong with Вы. How do you practice to say "please"?

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Originally Posted by Pcloadletter

Using Вы is a matter of showing good manners, the person doesn't have to be an elder

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It's not a matter of good manners at all. The person you're addressing by "Вы" actually should be an elder. You can't address your teacher or your neighbour (if he's not your peer) by "ты". Never, even if you know him/her very well. In many situations, using "ты" could sound VERY rude and inappropriate, and your interlocutor will not think, "Oh, he said "ты" to me, he must have bad manners"; he simply will say, "What?? Why are you saying "ты" to me??"

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Originally Posted by Оля

Never, even if you know him/her very well. In many situations, using "ты" could sound VERY rude and inappropriate, and your interlocutor will not think, "Oh, he said "ты" to me, he must have bad manners"; he simply will say, "What?? Why are you saying "ты" to me??"

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Well, Оля, do you think that sounding rude and inappropriate is, in fact, a synonym of showing bad manners? What do you say?

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Well, Оля, do you think that sounding rude and inappropriate is, in fact, a synonym of showing bad manners?

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Of course, not! :lol:

Rudeness (an intentional thing) and bad manners (an unintentional thing) are different things!
Someone can be rude knowing that what he's saying is rude and inappropriate; and someone can have no any bad purpose saying or doing something what is considered as "bad manners". For instance, if you don't open a door in front of a lady and enter first into the room, she could think, "What a uncouth guy", and that's all. But if you say "ты" to a professor at the exam, he would not "think" anything, he simply would say, "What????"

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Originally Posted by Оля

Rudeness (an intentional thing) and bad manners (an unintentional thing) are different things!

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I suggest you look up these words in a dictionary (Merriam-Webster perhaps?). Let me know if any distinctions regarding intent are mentioned.

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Originally Posted by Pcloadletter

I suggest you look up these words in a dictionary

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I suggest you to be more well-reasoned. :wink:

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Originally Posted by Оля

I suggest you to be more well-reasoned. :wink:

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Ах, Оля! Смею ли я Вас поправить? :crazy:
В предложении "I suggest you to be more well-reasoned" частица "to" излишня. После suggest употребляется инфинитив без "to". Правда, я не твёрдо уверена, но вот Кот Матроскин может сказать, так это или не так.

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Originally Posted by Оля

The person you're addressing by "Вы" actually should be an elder.

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:shock: Addressing someone by "Вы" doesn't correlate directly with age. It's a matter of courtesy and respect, especially in the formal setting. A teacher at my school addressed us by "Вы" since we were 11 years old, so I think it effectively proves your theory wrong, as we were not only her elders, but even not her equals in the strict sense of the word. ;)

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Originally Posted by Оля

The person you're addressing by "Вы" actually should be an elder.

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:shock: Addressing someone by "Вы" doesn't correlate directly with age. It's a matter of courtesy and respect, especially in the formal setting. A teacher at my school addressed us by "Вы" since we were 11 years old, so I think it effectively proves your theory wrong, as we were not only her elders, but even not her equals in the strict sense of the word. ;)

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Все равно это не вопрос хороших манер. Если я скажу "ты" человеку, который мне этого не позволял, это его может даже шокировать, и он вряд ли промолчит. А плохие манеры не шокируют, они просто вызывают неприятие, чаще всего даже внутреннее, когда человек вслух ничего не говорит.

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Addressing someone by "Вы" doesn't correlate directly with age.

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I meant that usually it does.

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Originally Posted by Оля

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Originally Posted by Pcloadletter

Using Вы is a matter of showing good manners, the person doesn't have to be an elder

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It's not a matter of good manners at all. The person you're addressing by "Вы" actually should be an elder.

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No.

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You can't address your teacher or your neighbour (if he's not your peer) by "ты".

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I can in some rare cases. Of course, before switching to 'ты' with somebody you don't know very well you'd better obtain his/her explicit consent.

Несмотря на то, что пол и возраст собеседника имеют большое значение, решающую роль играют взаимоотношения между людьми. Сформулировать чёткие правила использование обращений невозможно. Попробуйте объяснить в каких случаях следует говорить "sir", "ma'am", а в каких обращаться по имени.