Where on Earth did you get that?! :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Nathan
Drugs, prostitutes, abusing young girls.. what else is in your circle of interests?
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Where on Earth did you get that?! :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Nathan
Drugs, prostitutes, abusing young girls.. what else is in your circle of interests?
Well first off, I never said that I am interested in abusing young girls. I just said that young girls like abuse.Quote:
Originally Posted by CTPEKO3A
Anyone who goes to American highschool knows that a lot of young girls are enfatuated with jerks. Not all of them. Most of them grow out of it too, but again not all. Are you surprised that some young girls like jerks? Do you think I'm wrong? :)
I'm not advocating being a jerk to try to get girls. If you are yourself, you'll eventually find a woman who likes you. If you're a jerk it'll be some chick who likes jerks, and there are a lot of jerks out there for those girls to pick from.
edit: also wanted to add that abuse does not necesarrily mean physical beating
99.9% That 0.1% was when I didn't like the girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pioner
I feel really sorry for you, lad. You look like a grown-up in that photo - pity you haven't figured out the rules of the game yet. And they are quite simple - down at the level of caveman instincts women want men who can do things for them, not supplicating nice guys who drool like puppies. As soon as the woman sees she's in control, you're out of the game. The goal is to keep the woman fighting for you. If she's not drawn to you, no amount of drooling on your part will ever win her over. The woman must feel drawn to you. But she won't feel drawn to you if you are a supplicating nice guy. This is why many women end up with jerks. 'Why is she with that jerk? I'm a nice guy, she needs *me*.' Sound familar?Quote:
Originally Posted by luvmonsta
P.S. Anyway, teaching you how to go about chatting up women is really not my business, so go ahead, buy your gf whatever you want. You've been given enough advice. I can only re-iterate that all the electronic stuff can be bought here and if it's a keyboard you want better take your lady with you so that she could try it herself before you actually buy it.
P.P.S. And you don't have to be rude towards me. Codger,w@nker, what next? (OK, you didn't say w@nker, but you implied it.) You know, I can use such words too. But I think we grown ups should be gentlemen enough not to stoop to that kind of shower room mentality. Won't you agree?
You need to learn some more English terminology VM, a Codger is another name for an old guy ok, you were probably thinking of the word 'todger' I know they sound similar but, well use your imagination. I will take your advice about taking her to get her a nice birthday prezzy. Yes, VM my friend, I do have a good heart, but believe me, I will tell you that I am in no way a push over, I dont hit women or abuse them one bit, but at the same time, I do like respect, and I do actually get respect, why? because the woman wants to.
Anyway, VM I think it would be good if we can bury the hatchet ok, and I will appologise if I miss understood some of your humour ok.
wow, and you had 100 dates at least. How do you remember all of them?Quote:
Originally Posted by VendingMachine
I need to try it. Next time I go to date I will slam the girl over her face and call her a slut. She will be immidately into me.
Thanks so far.
BTW, can anybody recommend a good lawyer, just in a case? ;)
I know what 'codger' means. But I'm not a codger, ok. I'm a radgie gadgie alright, but I'm not an old codger, ok.Quote:
Originally Posted by luvmonsta
Nope, I didn't think of todger (some will say I think with my todger, but I don't care what they say) and you don't have to explain to me what todger means, because I know.Quote:
you were probably thinking of the word 'todger' I know they sound similar but, well use your imagination.
At no point did I suggest that you should hit women. Only the lowest scum would do that.Quote:
Yes, VM my friend, I do have a good heart, but believe me, I will tell you that I am in no way a push over, I dont hit women or abuse them one bit
If you think that by treating a lady as a slut I meant knocking her about, you are a moron.Quote:
I need to try it. Next time I go to date I will slam the girl over her face and call her a slut. She will be immidately into me.
OK ladies, speak up! How many of you want to go out with a guy that doesn't bring you flowers or presents, makes you pay for your own dinner then treats you like a slut? Where is VM finding all these beautiful, masochistic girls? (maybe in his dreams?)
Young girls do not like abuse! They might not know yet how to defend themselves, so you, guys, are taking advantage of that!Quote:
Originally Posted by Nathan
Ok, may be I didn't go to American highschool and all girls in your school like jerks. But usually they marry nice guys after all. Who would want to live with a jerk, being abused all the time???Quote:
Anyone who goes to American highschool knows that a lot of young girls are enfatuated with jerks. Not all of them. Most of them grow out of it too, but again not all. Are you surprised that some young girls like jerks? Do you think I'm wrong? :)
This is actually a very good observation. Indeed, good girls eventually marry "nice guys", yet they sleep with jerks. Did I ever say I wanted to get married? :wink:Quote:
Ok, may be I didn't go to American highschool and all girls in your school like jerks. But usually they marry nice guys after all. Who would want to live with a jerk, being abused all the time???
Well, no response simply means that there are no ladies here. :P Now, hands up those who like flowers! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by JB
People, stop atacking VM. Let him live in his own world.
By the way, where do you get such a good weed? ;)
Ok I'm not going to even bother...sorry JB your on your own with this one. Its a battle not worth fighting, we should leave it too the women in his life if there are any.
This is not an attack, I repeat, this is not an attack.Quote:
Originally Posted by VendingMachine
I personally think that good girls don't sleep around, hence the "good" part in "good girls". I think they might sleep with jerks at a young age, but most likely will regret it later. I woman capable of cheating on her husband can't be considered to be a good girl, and the same goes for the male sex.
Wow, you guys are real sweet-hearts. Seriously, I've never seen so many guys who are so respectful of women, especially on an internet forum. VM, I'm assuming you're American? Most of the rest of you aren't, right?
VMs stance just doesn't sound that radical to me. It's a rather common observation that girls, especially at a young age, like "bad boys." Maybe that's a case of American pessimism?
There is an explanation to that. Women can be attracted to successful guys. In the school that is often the same thing, he is reach, he is cool, he got money, he got a lot of girls, and guess what, he is a jerk.
With time it changes, jerks looses their attractiveness, because girls start to understand that money and nice car does not mean anything.
You be dreaming, mate!Quote:
Originally Posted by Pioner
heh, maybe. Anyhow, those who are interested in money only, are not girls for me. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by DDT
You wanted to say "girls who are not for me", right? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Pioner
Feels like an extreme de-wussification of the majority of the male patrons with the exception of DDT and Mordan (not counting yours truly, of course) is urgently called for.
both. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Rtyom
They are not intresting for me, let's say, I am not attracted to dogs, same here. :)
In America we have a saying; "You get what you pay for."
If you treat women like trash , that's what you will attract, trash. Smart, attractive women who will treat a guy well and never cheat on him, want love and respect in return. Even a poor man can treat a girl well on a limited budget(even more admirable in her eyes).
There are plenty of trailor trash sluts that are attracted to the VM style, but all they'll give you is a few good croch diseases along with your 2 second orgasm.
Oh how true. And the prettier the girl the more expensive she is to keep.Quote:
Originally Posted by JB
wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by DDT
or we discuss hookers?
And that's why guys should go to Russia, because of the conversion rate.Quote:
Originally Posted by DDT
Have you guys ever thought that women are also human beings as well?
JB, why are your grapes so sour?
No. You mean they are? I thought women had only one rib (which they stole from us). Now, do you think that's enough to qualify?Quote:
Originally Posted by luvmonsta
Oh shut up VM
A real English gentleman. You can't beat it.
P.S. Man, you have no sense of humour.
There is an old expression that many mothers say to their daughters,Quote:
Originally Posted by Pioner
"You can love a rich man just as easily as you can a poor man."
If you think a woman will settle for less than she can get you are sadly mistaken. Why would she? Would you? But of course you are already married and your exprerience in the art of womanizing is over. Cut short. Finished. Kaput! Where as, I, still the male rouge of the species, am ever gaining knowlege on the subject.
And Fathers say to sons: "Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free?" 8)
It's not just milk you're gettin'. :o
Insert disease -> HERE <-
Well, I am divorced already. And I can tell you for sure, that when we got married, I nad no money so far. Really. I was quite new to US, not established at all. Anyhow "success" can be a part of the atractive elements for a woman. Having money helps a lot, but it does not mean that women would follow you just for money. And you better avoid those who after you because you got money. If you loose mone (shit happens) she may leave you, devastating you even more, while some other women may stay with you and work together through the problem.Quote:
Originally Posted by DDT
i really dont see anything wrong with what VM's saying. he likes to be single and have sex with lots of women, he's not cheating on a wife or destroying anyone's life. so whats the problem?
Samantha from sex in the city was a slut and everyone thought she was great.
news flash: men aren't the only ones who cheat.
From reading this thread, it looks to me like VM is somewhat disgusted that not all guys behave like him and thinks a man isn't a real man unless he adopts this lifestyle. I do see something wrong with that attitude.
Unfortunately there is a great deal of truth in what he says though. There are many beautiful women who are attracted to total jerks. I wish it wasn't true but I've seen it time and time again. Definitely, if all you're interested in is no strings attached sex with lots of women, then being nice is probably not the smartest way to go about it. I think it's a different situation if you're interested in a serious relationship and are not so cynical and twisted that you not only no longer believe in love but actually feel contempt for the idea itself.
Bottom line though, is that niceness has nothing to do with sexual attraction on its own, if looked at in isolation from any affectionate or loving feelings. And being excessively nice, too eager to please, and overly attentive will most likely decrease rather than increase your sexual appeal. I don't think buying presents is a problem unless the person doing it feels insecure and is desperately trying to impress someone. If it's just done naturally out of the goodness of your heart then I think it should be fine.
...and yes VM, I'm yet another male in need of 'de-wussification', we must be strangely drawn to this place :lol:
Why there are so many "wusses" on this board who know how to treat women properly? What do we have in common here? We are mainly people with education, have a thirst for knowledge and a desire to learn Russian culture. And as far as I have seen, treating women respectfully is very much the Russian culture.
My 3.4 cents
I never said treat women disrespectfully. I said don't be a wusspot. Maybe our definitions of "respectfully" differ somewhat.
Maybe they do... treating a woman as a slut doesn't really enter my book as a respectful way to treat her... :wink: